the tolerance thermometer. on a scale of 1 to 10, when they reach 10, it's time.
you can push and pull someone and highlight the way to number 10, but perhaps can only reach number 9. the final step is always up to them.

sometimes i think, giving advice is quite pressurizing. or stating opinions. because you never know when the power of influence lie in your hands. and let's face it? what makes me so sure i know what's best for you that i have to give my 2 cents worth.

i only meant to be a listening ear.
i dont know who it is that does the talking.

to you and you and you. i'd still like to say that things happen because of some higher plan that we arent aware of yet, and decisions made by courage and bravery will reward you in time.