My logic still stands. Sometimes, when you really open your heart to let someone in, it's true you become a different person. To be able to have the gift og giving oneself to another changes you. But as with every good thing, the bad accompanies. When you do open up, you allow yourself to become vulnerable, and sometimes you succumb to what i call the weaker side, and eventually, because you lowered your defences, the hurt anyone bestows upon you increases tenfold.