Everything happens for a reason and everything has their own unique miraculous way of falling into place.

We meet people whose roles in our lives are to teach us a lesson about life and about ourselves. Because it is from them that you realise and understand certain things which you would never have had the chance to if it werent for them. Sometimes it is good things, and sometimes not.

But it's a lesson taught which we all must learn.

I was always an advocate that there isn't a soul mate created for you --it's 2 people who mould each other, 2 people who look in the same direction.

I always felt that differences can tear you apart, because it makes the journey together too challenging, and sometimes its obstacles are just too much on a weary heart.

But I always knew that if you continue to walk the same path together because you choose to and you both want to end up at the same destination, sometimes you can make it.

Holding each other's hands aint enough. At times, it will get loose, and at times you have to grip it tighter than others. But never let go. Because you never know what dangers you and your partner might run into.

I am growing to understand that everyone's behaviour and views are different, and one should not blame for it, but instead try a little patience in finding that right compromise and adapting to each other's styles and needs.

I am beginning to feel fear that I have never known before, because it stems not from paranoia but something which runs deeper and too real for me to be comfortable with.

I'm learning new things everyday.

Good and bad.

But 'the more I learn, the more I love.'

I am also starting to fully grasp the essence of unconditional love.

And in time, its application will get easier and easier.

i also understand what a man's desperation is , his desperate wish for his loved one's faith and belief in him to remain intact.