life is just so damn unexpected. you just never know when you get whacked by something really bad, or given something really beautiful.
some things you see it coming. and some thing just zoom up to you just like that.

the uncertainty of life. take it. you dont exactly have a choice of leaving it.

i realise that there is no such thing as an open book relationship.
white lies, secrets -- the unspoken truths.

the question to ask yourself is, 'does it matter?'

and the lesson to be learnt is, sometimes, they're harmless.

and dont argue about the principle that its the lying, not its content.
we're talking about reality here.

and understanding this, is the next lesson to be learnt.