life is so predictably unpredictable, that some moments slip out of your hands the minute you learn the art of grasping.

suppose we step out of our lives and look at ourselves from a stranger's point of view. what would we see? would we nod in admiration or laugh and point fingers? would we notice things that we never ever saw before?
people always say the 3rd party knows best, the one who looks from the outside sees the best.
maybe, maybe not.

does it really matter?

its even scarier when you begin to depend heavily on someone. not financially or emotionally, but just his presence. because life is so unbalanced at times you never know when it will tilt towards your favour or crash on the other side.

so why take the risk and light that candle? you never know when the flame might go out or you never know when you might get burned, whether you play with fire or not.

should we then look from the unlighted candle from afar and simply imagine its beauty when it is lighted, but never making it reality because we are afraid that you will become so captivated and enchanted you may never stop looking at it.

but of course, we all know life is all about risks. and all the life is short go for it etc etc.
yes yes theory is everywhere.

it's just a matter of conviction.