as you grow older, and you're in a relationship, who poses a bigger threat of taking your partner away from you?

equal chances for both sexes?

i think it's the opposite gender of your same-sex relationship.

because when you become older, issues such as society's ostracizing or acceptance become larger than it once was. they shldnt matter, but they do.

it's plainly difficult to lead double lives.

so if you're in a female-female rel, and this guy comes along, vs this girl who comes along, you fear both right? but i'd bet on it that you'd fight harder for your girl if it was against just the female rival. and it's easier to let go to the guy. because, well, he's in a better position to be with her than you.

what an ego smasher. but ah, that's life right? the things you must give up, or the right thing to do are always the hardest.

they're not sacrifices for nothing you know.

everyday, i see myself understanding a little bit more. they say each rel you go through teaches you new things. how right they are.
i realise why people do the things they do, or the feelings that they feel.
because experience brings empathy, and you learn to step in people's shoes and walk around, and feel their level of discomfort for yourselves.

i can only stare into space and reflect....