Jem's Rubbish to YOU

Some refer to the uncertainty of life as delicious ambiguity. And as we skip or plod on our path, we learn that stories do not have fairy tale endings, because although we remain the author, the final conclusions and the content are created by different characters with their different attitudes.

When we are propelled by our discomfort, we search for enlightenment, and they say it is through these dark periods that we find that inner knight within us to fight our battles.

When an event occurs, whether you saw it coming or it came at you unexpectedly, your reaction would be likely to stay in that similar range, and will not vary to any extremities.

But you have to continue to love yourself, that's crucial in healing. Dont blame yourself because it will never get you anywhere, and if you search long and hard internally, you'll find that these inferiorities have no basis. Drop the self pity and know that shit happens.

They say relationships should bring out the best in you, and yes it should. But that doesnt mean it happens all the time, and then it's time to think. Life is a bed of roses, and you have to look out for the thorns. And if those thorns are sticking into you, no matter much you value the beauty and the happiness that those roses give you, maybe it's time to pull those thorns out. It's no good being sentimental because although love makes the world go round, love is not everything.

When you love someone, anything is possible. You would give everything up, you could sacrifice anything. It sounds so easy on paper. But then resentment comes in, bitterness arises, you start questioning yourself. And even if you are willing to do all the above, you have to think and ask yourself whether it's worth it. And more often, it's not.

All you need to do is reflect.

Remember all I have tried to teach you. I love you.