I can be the one to sing your blues away...

Other people may be there to help us, teach us, guide us along our path. But the lesson to be learned is always ours.Melody Beattie

Almost everything sounds simple in theory, but never in execution. LIke my carpenter analogy that some of you may be familiar with (;p), others can supply you all the materials, the nails the hammer etc, but ultimately, it's up to you to begin and complete your construction. I always believed in independence, though previously I never followed what I preach. Trouble is, now, I am too independent. And they always so too much of something can kill you. But I'd rather be too independent than too dependant, for there is only a certain extent to which you can mould your future, and what if one day, you wake up all alone? Well, the point is, I can complain to others, whine, sulk, but never to the extent where it becomes too extreme. Because others have their own lives to lead too. It's fine to need people, but you cannot depend wholly on them.