Let us all write our bad moments in the sand....

hello all! here is lesson number 3.
" HOlding anger is a poison. It eats you from inside. We think that hating is a weapon that attacks the person who harmed us. but hatred is a curved blade. And the harm we do, we do to ourselves.... No one is bron with anger. And when we die, the soul is freed from it... You need to forgive...."

Once again, the 3rd lesson only enhances the fact that everything is easier said than done. How does one let go of all the hatred, anger, resentment and bitterness? It's so easy for counsellors to say that these negative feelings that we hold on to will only torment us and... to put it rudely.. blah blah blah. So where does one go from here? I guess at the end of the day, ultimately it is up to us to search that light of forgiveness within ourselves.
but what if the person in question is ourselves? what if you blame yourself for certain things? what if you feel that who you are now is a result of someone else's detriment? how do you forgive when you know you are the cause of someone's decline....
well, the theoratical answer to this would be it's not wholly your fault, sometimes circumstances just was not to your advantage, it takes 2 hands to clap.. you already did what you can...
practically.. once more.. yep.. all within yourself.. which brings us back to square 1. easier said than done. But you know, I feel it is vital to bear in mind that in the depths of what we call a soul, there is an area which possesses us to forgive.. and always remember that one day there will be a light.. and this light.. for the sake of ourselves, sometimes we just hv to work to drive the shadows away.. and lean towards what would be pure happiness.. almost impossible to achieve.. but incline towards it.. and who knows.. after all... during a rainstorm riddled with hailstones that lasts for days.. the sun still comes back out and slowly evaporates the rain.. and the aftermath of the disaster.. we see the rainbow.

No matter how well you nurse a grudge, it will never get better.
--Joyce Smith

does it matter what the future holds for us?... No...because for now.. I have you.. and that is what I am focus on.. and that is all that matters to me........
in this life.... i was loved by you...